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And how I lost 18kg in under four months.

Hi royals,
Happy Lunar New Year ๐ - new beginnings are a time for reflection - and this year, I've been thinking a lot about the people we surround ourselves with.
At Fly Entertainment's CNY gathering, I was reminded of how important community, energy, and leadership are. Watching Irene ๅงๅง and how she genuinely cares for her tribe made me realise - this is what real leadership looks like.

It's something I strongly believe in, too. I've always said: "Not my tribe, not my problem. My tribe, my problem."

And that got me thinking about the power of vibe - how our environment shapes our mindset, our energy, and ultimately, our success.
We always hear: "You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with."
But let's be real - five is too little.
Based on my bazi and human design, I thrive in a larger, more dynamic ecosystem:
โ 10 to 12 people in my core circle - deep influence.
โ 20 to 30 people in my extended network - perspective and growth.
โ 100 plus in my wider community - shared knowledge and opportunities.
That's why I've built multiple communities - each serving a different pillar of success, from AI and automation to wealth creation, personal growth, and public speaking.
Speaking of fresh starts...
A new year is the perfect time for a clean slate. Whether it's re-evaluating your circle, setting new goals, or even making your work more effortless - 2025 should be about working smarter, not harder.
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The weight loss story I haven't fully shared... YET
Here's something I haven't talked about in detail before:
When my marriage was falling apart, my husband said something that stuck with me - "If you don't lose weight, I'll divorce you."
In just under four months, I lost 18kg.
Did it save my marriage? No.
Did it change how I saw myself? Absolutely.
For the longest time, I didn't think things like appearance or first impressions mattered that much. I thought, "As long as we have each other, nothing else matters."
But the reality is - how you present yourself isn't just about how others see you, but how YOU see yourself.
And after weeks of holiday feasting, I know I'm not the only one who has had moments of looking in the mirror and thinking, "I need to do something about this."
๐ก So, should I share exactly how I lost 18kg - without extreme dieting, crazy workouts, or unrealistic expectations? If enough people are keen, I'll put together a detailed breakdown.
๐๐ป Hit reply and let me know! If there's enough interest, I might just make it happen.
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Final thoughts: Your vibe, your success
Your environment dictates your success. Choose your circle wisely.
๐ก Who's in your circle? Hit reply and let me know how you're levelling up this year.
If you're looking for a high-vibe, growth-driven community, join me in one (or more) of mine:
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Here's to a powerful 2025 - let's build, grow, and thrive. ๐
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